02/07/2026
š July is Gravesā Disease Awareness Month.
Most people know me as Ashley, the owner of Dakin Property Group.
What many people donāt know is that, a couple of years ago, I was diagnosed with Gravesā disease ā an autoimmune disease that affects the thyroid.
For a long time, I kept it to myself.
Then, in February this year, everything changed.
I suffered a major relapse that left me with severe paralysis. One minute I was going about my day, the next I couldnāt move. I was admitted to hospital, and it was one of the most frightening experiences of my life.
As Iām writing this, Iām sitting in a hospital waiting room, waiting for a scan on my neck and, hopefully, a date for surgery to remove my thyroid.
The operation wonāt cure Gravesā disease. Iāll always have the autoimmune condition, but the hope is that removing my thyroid will finally bring the symptoms under control and allow me to live life with far fewer limitations.
What Iāve learnt over the last couple of years is that invisible illnesses can be incredibly lonely.
People often mistake your symptoms for your character. Exhaustion gets labelled as laziness. Struggling gets mistaken for not caring. Looking āfineā on the outside makes it easy for people to underestimate the battle thatās happening on the inside.
Gravesā disease isnāt just āa thyroid problem.ā
Itās the racing heart.
The shaking.
The overwhelming fatigue.
The muscle weakness.
The brain fog.
The anxiety.
And the uncertainty of never quite knowing what tomorrow will bring.
Despite everything thatās happened, one of the best decisions Iāve ever made was starting Dakin Property Group.
There have been days when itās been incredibly difficult, but building this business has given me purpose when I needed it most. Every valuation, every viewing, every set of keys handed over reminds me why I started it in the first place.
I genuinely love what I do.
Helping people through one of the biggest moments of their lives isnāt just a job to meāitās a privilege. If anything, everything Iāve been through has made me even more determined to build a business thatās centred around kindness, honesty and putting people first.
If this journey has taught me anything, itās thisā¦
You never truly know what someone else is carrying.
So be kind.
Be patient.
And never judge someone by what you can see on the surface.
If sharing my story helps just one person recognise the signs of Gravesā disease sooner, or helps someone living with an invisible illness feel a little less alone, then itās been worth opening up.
Hereās hoping the next chapter starts with a surgery date⦠and the chance to keep building the business I love, with my health finally moving in the right direction.
Thank you to everyone whoās supported me, whether youāve known what was going on or not. It means more than youāll ever know.
Ashley Dakin
Dakin Property Group
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