17/05/2026
I watched this movie “Call of My Life” and honestly, the entire storyline made me laugh and reflect at the same time.
Emeka (played by Zubby Michael) was a successful businessman in a relationship with Sol. Sol was the clingy and emotionally expressive type, while Emeka was deeply focused on business and not emotionally available enough to complement what Sol needed in the relationship. Eventually, the relationship broke down.
Then Eli appeared. A calm and emotionally present Ghanaian newscaster who naturally filled the emotional gap Sol had been missing in Emeka. They connected effortlessly and became what many would describe as a perfect match.
What made the movie interesting was the twist at the end.
Emeka eventually returned, this time becoming emotionally available and trying to do all the things he failed to do before. But by then, Sol had already fallen out of love and chose Eli instead.
The funniest part for me was the reaction in the cinema hall. The moment Sol chose Eli, the Nigerian ladies in the hall were all shouting and clapping😁
I could not keep quiet. I told some of the ladies sitting close to me that they only love fiction but often struggle with reality.
Because the real question is that, in today’s Nigerian romantic landscape, what truly comes first for laddies?
Love alone?
Or security, stability, financial comfort etc
Or everything with emotional connection combined together?
As Sol’s father, (played by Ukwa) implied in the movie, Sol chose love over security.
Eli represents the Love meanwhile Emeka represented wealth, stability, security and status.
The film tried to present an ideal emotional choice, and the people loved it but reality is often more complicated.
In real life, many people want emotional availability, love, attention, and connection but they also want security, stability, vision, and financial capacity. The challenge is that modern relationships are increasingly expected to provide everything at once.
So while the movie was entertaining, it also quietly exposed the tension between romantic ideals and practical realities in today’s society and honestly, that tension is what made the entire cinema reaction even more interesting to watch. 😁
It’s a Fiction and those that shape their reality with it may be heartbroken.
I asked again, in today’s Nigerian romantic landscape, what truly comes first for ladies?????