12/07/2024
In 2004 Paul Rudeboy Okoye met his future wife Anita Okoye during their United graduate days in University of Abuja.
They got married in March 2014 .
The marriage lasted for 8 year after Anita filed for divorce over irreconcilable differences.
This was in 2022.
The marriage was dissolved and Anita and Paul went their separate ways
No drama , no call out or any form of social media interview about her crashed marriage.
She moved on and relocated to the US where she is living presently with her children.
Anita and Paul decided to respect their children and give priority to their children over personal interests.
In doing so , they agreed to still maintain cordial relationship in the interests of their children.
For Anita and Paul , its peaceful co parenting or nothing.
Paul is remarried right and Anita have been involved in one relationship.
Yet , their relationship is still very cordial. They still wish each other well.
When Anita graduated from the US college. Paul Rudeboy Okoye celebrated her and wished her well.
Anita also sent a birthday message to Paul on his birthday.
Recently, they both came together to celebrate their son who turned 11 years recently
As we speak right now , Paul is on holidays in the US to enable him spend time with his children.
Paul Rudeboy Okoye and Anita are good examples on how to have cordial relationship with your ex.
They have decided to put the interests of their their children over personal interests.
This is good for the healthy development of their children.
Dragging your children in your saga with your ex makes no sense.
It affects the children negatively
Meanwhile, i think Paul Rudeboy Okoye and Anita deserves some flowers.
I love their maturity and how they have managed their divorce.
Kudos to them
Ambrose Onwuegbuzie
