07/10/2023
Has anyone ever heard the phrase "Your best looks different every day?" Me, too. I think that it is easy to say in theory but hard to keep in mind in practice. We get caught up in the "have tos" of life, the ever increasing responsibilities, the interconnection with others that makes our schedules not our own, and all the pressure to be all the things to all the people.
So, here's what I have to say about it: be all the things to yourself sometimes. The ship doesn't sail without you. Celebrate your small victories and don't let anyone take that away from you. There are always going to be more things to do than there is time to do them, but you being present for yourself, for your things, and for your life is literally the only essential thing in all of that.
Some days are going to be clear wins. Other days, your best is going to be putting everything you have towards doing the absolute bare minimum. And that's okay. It is even okay if you have a bunch of those days in a row. The people who love you and support you will do for you just like you do for them.
So, celebrate your small wins. Do your best to be all the things you want to be, but be all those things for yourself first. You are vitally important even if you don't feel that way today or tomorrow or three weeks from now. And that's okay, too.