07/30/2026
The home debate – is it an asset or a liability?
Your mom and dad probably told you your greatest asset is a home. They encourage you to buy your first home, after all.. they did it (ha)
Your bro finance advice from TikTok is saying your house is actually a LIABILITY because it doesn’t cash flow! It locks you down, it costs money to maintain. The taxes! They encourage you to invest in their crypto coin or tell you how to become TikTok famous.
What’s the truth? Well, in my opinion, they’re both right. Real estate isn’t inherently good or bad, real estate is POWERFUL. But that goes both ways. If you do things right, your home (or real estate investments) can be your ticket to wealth. Do it wrong, and it could become one of the biggest financial burdens you’ll ever carry. It all depends on how you do it. Let's talk about why.
I mentioned that owning real estate is powerful. What do I mean by that? Several things:
1. You can utilize leverage – Borrow money to purchase an asset you otherwise could not afford with cash.
2. In most cases (not all), real estate appreciates in value – You bought it for $300k and in 20 years its worth $400k (an example)
3. Forced savings – A portion of your mortgage payment goes towards your principle, which increases your equity, which increases your net worth.
4. Potential tax advantages – Don’t ask me, ask a tax expert.
5. Ability to force appreciation through value adds – Renovate your home in a way that increases value.
6. A hedge against inflation – Your rate on a fixed mortgage never changes – rents do.
7. Cash-Flow – This mainly applies to investors but could also apply to an owner-occupied, but I will get into that in another post.
This stuff sounds great right? Well, it's not all sunshine and rainbows with owning real estate. Just like any concept of “power” there is a downside. Here are some of the risks of owning real estate:
1. Buying what you are approved for, not what you can afford – The old “house broke” argument.
2. Buying a house as soon as you save up the down payment – Something is going to break. Something will go wrong. HVAC, roof repairs, plumbing issues, you name it. Problems happen. Downpayment AND an emergency fund is necessary. Don’t underestimate the cost of homeownership.
3. Not planning for the future – Buying that big, beautiful home with you and your spouse's salary, only to realize after your first kiddo your wife wants to stay home. Job loss, career change, etc. Think 10 years down the road, not 10 months.
4. Overpaying and being stuck in a home with no equity and/or being forced to sell before you’ve had time to build any meaningful equity.
5. Lack of liquidity – Your stock portfolio can be sold tomorrow but your home may take weeks or months. There are inspections required, negotiation, transaction costs. Real estate is an illiquid asset.
None of these things make real estate a poor investment. But they do reinforce that buying real estate takes careful planning. How do we go about mitigating these risks?
1. Don’t pay attention to what those around you are doing. Buy for you, not for your friends, i.e., “Keeping Up with the Jones’s”
2. Wait until you have a comfortable amount for an emergency fund. Don’t leave the closing table with 47 dollars in your bank account.
3. Think 5, 10, 15 years down the road.
4. Be willing to wait. The thoughts of homeownership are exciting, but don’t get distracted. Identify your long term goals and stick to them, even if it means waiting on that dream home.
Well, you may be saying “Great, thanks Blake. Easier said than done.”
I hear ya, which brings me to my next point:
5. Whether it be a trusted agent, lender, financial planner, or a mentor in life, surround yourself with people who care more about your long term success than they do closing a deal. Interview multiple agents. Don’t just ask how many homes they’ve sold, ask about how they’d advise a client who may not be financially ready to buy. If they encourage a decision that leaves you without adequate reserves, or paying a monthly that will stretch you thin, proceed with caution. Find an agent that asks more than if you are pre-approved and for how much. Your agent should generally understand your financial priorities, your lifestyle and your long-term goals – not just what the bank pre-approved you for.
A home should strengthen your financial future, not become a burden that holds it back.
Thoughts? Questions? Leave a comment, lets hash it out.
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