09/23/2026
The first offer on a listing is often the strongest one. Not because buyers run out of ideas, but because early buyers are the most motivated.
When a listing goes active and a buyer moves quickly, that buyer has typically been searching for weeks or months. They know the inventory. They act because something genuinely fits.
When a seller passes on that offer to wait for better, what follows is usually not a better offer. It is days on market accumulating, and the perception that accumulates with it.
Buyers and buyer's agents watch DOM closely. A listing at 30 days looks different from a listing at 75. At 75 days, a buyer's first question is usually: what's wrong with it? The second is: how much can we take off?
The seller who held out for a stronger offer in week two often ends up accepting a lower one in week ten, plus carrying costs through the months in between.
When I have the conversation about whether to counter or hold, the question I ask is: what does your leverage look like at day 60 if this buyer walks?
That's the number that should drive the decision.