20/09/2023
Good morning Mr Focus Zambia, kindly keep my I.D hidden.
I appreciate the work you do.
Am 30 years old,not married yet . Age is really catching up and I feel I will need a child soon wether married or not.
I have one pressing issue that I have been trying to ignore for so long .. I need advice from my Sisters and Mothers in the house ..
I am getting older ,I am filled with worry concerning my fertility . I know some Women will come out Holy ,but a few will understand what I mean ...If we are all to be honest , mostly , Women whilst growing up will experience a pregnancy while seeing a man especially in cases were protection isn't used. There is proof of fertility...
I have three Ex's, and I have never fallen pregnant for any of them . All of my friends have fallen pregnant before , some kept ,some terminated. Not that it's a good thing , but on the bright side they know that they can bear children.
But sometimes it makes me wonder , nomatter what happens ,I have never fallen pregnant.
(Note: I have never used any long term family planning , just emergency contraceptives here and there)
But , at this stage ,
It has reached a point were I don't even mind wether we use morning after or not , it doesn't matter wether safe days or danger days ,I just never fall pregnant.
I want to know , are there any women in the house that never fell pregnant before during dating life ,but fell pregnant after getting married ?
Or maybe I have a fertility issue that will need to be checked ?
Is it normal for a woman ? Are there any signs to look out for in terms of pointing out fertility issues? I am becoming more concerned.
Please no insults. Mature advise only.
Thank you ..
