06/01/2023
Spending three weeks away has taught me a lot about myself and my property journey.
Here’s what I’ve learnt.
From wired, tired and frazzled, to recharged, rejuvenated and refreshed.
The importance of reflection, gratitude and rest is fundamental to our growth and development. I came away feeling guilty and irresponsible when I knew I had so much to do at home with my property business and my other business.
As my three weeks away comes to an end, I’d like to share some of the highlights of finding time to reflect, recharge and regroup.
I now see the value in just how important it is to get away, refresh, regroup and focus on your processes.
A great coach whom I’m working with at the moment, Tony Meredith, has a great saying which is, “focus on the process, not the results.”
I now get it.
My entire journey has previously been to focus on the results, the end game, the money in the bank so to speak, but I’d like to share with you upon reflection and advice from my coach that the "process is what matters most".
Learning along the way, overcoming the challenges, the heartache, the frustration, the despair, having to find the grit to keep pushing on when things were going against me means more to me today than the cash in the bank. By investing in the process today we set ourselves up for success and growth tomorrow.
Yes, the money is great but the growth upon reflection trumps all of that. Who we are today is not who we’ll become tomorrow.
We are either ripe and rotting or green and growing. In other words, we need to always be challenging ourselves. As humans, we have the capacity to experience growth and it’s one of the greatest human traits I know of.
Throughout my processes, I’ve learnt to become more focused, more responsible, more flexible, I’ve learnt greater leadership skills and have become more appreciative of the good times.
The challenges sucked whilst in the midst of it I am not going to lie, but upon reflection, I have now found those times to be the source of where I’ve drawn my greatest inspiration.
I hope by sharing my journey I can provide a voice or a new way of thinking for those who are struggling at the movement on their property journey, or any journey for that matter.
We’ve all experienced challenges such as Covid, price increases, labour shortages, cost blowouts etc but I believe this has made us all the more resourceful, more creative and more determined to push on. I say to anyone finding it hard right now to stay on track “hang in there little soldier, your growing as a person through all of this.”
It’s only now upon reflection that I can grasp in detail the concept of growth and development.
As a community, we are stronger as one. I’d like to thank my mentors, Tony Meredith, Tony Meredith Coaching Jason and Amy (JAMY) Think Property Club and Rob Flux Property Developer Network. You guys all give so much to your tribe. Thank you for leading the way.
As Winston Churchill said, “if you’re going through hell, just keep going.” Move forward every day being grateful for the challenges, grateful for the learnings and grateful for the opportunity to be part of this amazing industry no matter what the challenge.
Yes, it can be tough but the payoff of living beyond your comfort zone is having prosperity and abundance and the potential for living a life of endless possibilities.
Enjoy every minute, reflect as much as you can and always try and find the growth or opportunity in any challenging situation, for this is where the rubber meets the road or another way of saying it is, this is where the growth happens, just a few inches out of your comfort zone.
On behalf of Woodstone Developments, I’d like to wish everyone a great year full of growth, learning, prosperity and remember to focus on your processes, more than the result.
Keep going soldiers, stay STRONG and don’t forget to find time for reflection, finding gratitude and seeking rest.