03/03/2026
From a young age, I was set in my ways, rigid with my life and the way I handled it.
I had goals and ideas for how my life was supposed to be.
It was my job to follow that blueprint carefully and strictly.
I’ve slowly realized over the years that I WAS WRONG.
Not all of it, but most of it.
I’d tell myself that being rigid and unforgiving in your life path gets you to a lot of places, but you miss out so much more!
I’ve since learned to be more like water and embrace the detour.
I’ve learned to relax, pace myself and enjoy the journey.
It opened so many more doors for experiences that I never would have had on my “rigid” path.
I’ve done things that were never close to what I thought I would encounter.
I’ve had experiences that taught me so much more than my original path would have.
But the best part?
I’ve learned that you can work diligently on a path, keep your mind open to other things, and do things for no other reason than because you wanted to.
My life has become so much more enriched, exciting and peaceful!
My only regret is not learning the lesson sooner.
I’d tell myself to have goals and work towards them, but live life while you get there!