04/03/2024
It's been a tough week, coming out of one of my busiest months of my career and life.
I came to the realization and have really doubled down on self reflection.
I've reminded myself I am a good person, and tend to be a bit too much of a boy scout, trying to fix everything for everyone else.
I can be a paladin, but have to establish clear expectations and boundaries around others.
I can't fix everything, and have to be ok with that.
I've had a ton of people over the last year see my physical results from the gym, and see my professional results in my business. A lot of these people are asking me how I did it. So many want my results, my coaching, my mentorship.
When I try to tell them and show them it was years of compound effect application since my eldest son had his health issues 10-15 years ago, I often get a bewildered look, stalls and objections. (We see your results and want them but can you just put it in a pill we can take daily?)
There is NO MAGIC PILL. It is HARD WORK AND COMMITTMENT.
I can show, I can lead by example, and I can do my best to serve, and hope others will stand up and take note. If someone wants to run with me and beside me, I am 1000% committed to them.
I did this for my family, for myself and for my tribe - my clients and friends. I'd love to help others now do what I have done.
I was really excited when we started coming out of COVID. I was looking forward to fixing, helping and serving others since I had established such a great foundation for myself - putting me in a position of abundance and positivity, I have been working toward helping others with their shifts in mindset.
Sometimes people aren't ready to run with me, even though they see me running toward success. I have to be ok with that - I can't save everyone.
Victim mindsets abound post covid, and if they can't focus on our future with positivity like I am it's not on me to force them to see how good we have it in Alberta. (If you google Mother Teresa is Bad that's what you're going to read, as that's the perspective you are researching with)
This was my struggle in March, coming to this realization.
It's ok. I'm ok. Keep my mindset and my path, and don't allow anything to knock me off my journey.
Who else has arrived at a similar perspective and is ready to build our amazing futures together? Let's focus on our windshield and not our rear view mirrors...
