10/10/2026
Everybody has one room they go to when the day was too much.
It is almost never the nicest room in the house. It is the kitchen at 10pm with one light on. The chair by the window that gets the afternoon sun. The porch, in October, with a blanket and something warm, watching nothing in particular happen on the street.
Today is World Mental Health Day, and I am not going to pretend a house fixes anything. It does not. But a home does hold some of it. There is a real difference between a place you live and a place that gives you somewhere to land, and I think about that more than I think about square footage.
If you are house hunting right now, that is worth adding to the list. Not just how many bedrooms. Where in this house would I go on the worst day?
Tell me your room. I will go first: mine is the family room right by the window overlooking the yard and trees.