08/17/2026
When people decide to buy a home together, it's easy to assume they're both searching for the same thing. In my experience, that's rarely the case.
One person may picture a quiet neighbourhood with little maintenance while the other is dreaming about a character home with a large backyard where they can host friends and neighbours. Or one may be prioritizing a short commute while the other is thinking about being closer to family further from the downtown core. None of these preferences are right or wrong. They simply reflect different ideas of what "home" means.
Sitting down and making a list of your needs, priorities (which sometimes means negotiating!) and expectations has a tremendous impact on your search. Not only does it help each of you understand what you're looking for in your next home, it gives you confidence when it's time to make decisions.
If you're buying with a spouse, partner, family member or friend, it's also important to speak with a real estate lawyer about ownership options, such as joint tenancy and tenants in common. They can advise you about other legal considerations too, including whether your wills reflect your new ownership arrangement.
There is much to consider when buying a home. Having these conversations early helps make the search more productive—and often much more enjoyable. 🦜