09/06/2025
I’m 42 today here are 10 things I’ve learned 🤔
Life doesn’t come with a manual, but every experience leaves you with a lesson—some loud, some quiet. At 42, here are 10 truths that hit different, shaped me, and continue to guide me forward:
1. Humble yourself. Put God first whether you like it or not we are all going to need him one day. I learnt the hard way don’t let the worse case scenario happen to understand that you need him 🙏🏾
2. Take action perfection is a myth, if you want to make a change in your life do it. You get 4,000 weeks if you’re lucky—stop waiting. Time is finite. Don’t waste it on fear.
3. Spend time with people who bring out your favorite version of yourself. That’s where your soul breathes.
4. You teach people how to treat you by what you tolerate. Boundaries are self-respect in action.
5. Growth happens when you feel unqualified. That’s where the magic begins.
6. “The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” Lean into discomfort—it’s often the doorway.
7. If you don’t schedule your priorities, someone else will. Guard your time like your life depends on it—it does.
8. The most dangerous addiction is the approval of others. Let go of needing to be liked. Be true instead.
9. Rest is not a reward—it’s a right. Burnout is not a badge of honour.
10. You’ll never regret investing in your health, learning, or relationships. These are the real assets.
