26/05/2026
If there is one thing you should seriously learn, it is human psychology. Understanding people can make you a better parent, partner, friend, leader, or businessperson.
For example, psychology teaches us that men are highly visual creatures. They are naturally drawn to what they see. Endelea tu kuvaa hizo manguo zako refu refu, kulala na oversized T-shirts, na ukose kutuma view hata once đ Utaachwa for someone who understands how the game is played.
Oh, you think you are special because you have a business or went to university? Do you think you are the first person to graduate? đ Whether you are prime Cristiano Ronaldo or prime Lionel Messi, if you canât play by the rules, you will still get subbed.
And as a man, do you think money alone makes you special? Do you think having money automatically makes you a better partner? Utagongewa na hiyo mali yako.
Women don't care about your sacrifices. They are loyal to their feelings. In his book The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explains that the feminine essence does not care about your track record. It doesnât matter that you used to spoil them. The question is: what are you doing now?
A man with consistent cash flowâeven if itâs just KSh 500 dailyâcan easily outshine someone earning six figures but unavailable emotionally or financially. You are waiting for payday after 30 days to take her out, while the other guy can send KSh 200 instantly whenever she needs it.
The truth is, you cannot compete with nature. Global brands understand human psychology and use it to their advantage.
Take companies like Apple. They release new iPhones constantly but rarely change the original shape drastically. Premium car brands like Porsche, Mercedes-Benz, and BMW maintain recognizable designs for decades. Luxury liquor brands like Hennessy, Martell, and Clase Azul pay close attention to bottle shapes and aesthetics.
Why? Because they understand that the human brain naturally associates certain shapes and designs with quality, luxury, and prestige.
Even in Kenya, many people call politicians fools and label them âMPigs.â But Kenyan politicians are often extremely smart. They donât just play the gameâthey play it exactly the way it is meant to be played.
Meanwhile, youâthe âsmartâ oneâwhy are you struggling to put food on the table? You know what everyone else should do, but you donât know what to do with your own life.
Even if we fully funded your political campaign, chances are you would still lose because you believe the world rewards good intentions. Politics doesnât work like that. In politics, you donât say the right. You say what the crowds want to listen to. That's how you win.
If you travel abroad and randomly meet another Kenyan, chances are youâll instantly become friends without much scrutiny because you assume you share similar values. Human beings naturally trust familiarity.
That is why in business, mirroring your clients matters.
If your clients prefer texting, stop forcing phone calls.
If they enjoy small talk, learn to engage properly.
If they are introverted, give them space. Donât become emotionally exhausting.
The better you understand people, the easier life becomes.
Let me leave you with this Latin phrase: Que sera sera â âIt is what it is.â
And remember, insights like these donât come from people sleeping in cheap lodgings. They come from people who understand that quality sleep is an investment in health and productivity.
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