Bergie-Ideal

08/05/2026

A 6 bedroom duplex in Asaba Delta state

01/05/2026

Happy New month Bergie-Ideal Family
Welcome to the month of may

06/04/2026

05/04/2026

01/04/2026

Happy New month family… It’s our month to remember what God did for us through his son’s death, burial and resurrection.. so that we might be called and also live like the sons of God

16/03/2026

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14/03/2026

Join the Beginner class with the WhatsApp group link
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01/03/2026

Happy new month family

10/02/2026

09/02/2026

WHY MOST PEOPLE DON’T GET WHAT THEY WANT (AND IT’S NOT THE DEVIL)

Let me shock you real quick.

👉 God is not withholding from you.
👉 Life is not unfair to you.
👉 Your breakthrough is not late.

James 4:2–3 exposes the real reason many people don’t get what they want:

“You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.”

This scripture reveals the principles of not getting what you want.

Let’s break it down 👇

1️⃣ Desire Without Discipline Produces Frustration

“You desire but do not have…”
Wanting something is not enough.
Desire without wisdom turns into envy.
Envy turns into strife.
And strife blocks results.

Principle: Wanting is free, but becoming costs something.

2️⃣ Fighting People Instead of Following Principles

“You quarrel and fight…”
Many people fight people when they should be learning principles.
They argue with mentors, criticize helpers, and blame systems.

Principle: You don’t defeat resistance with aggression; you overcome it with alignment.

3️⃣ Not Asking Is a Spiritual Violation

“You do not have because you do not ask God…”
Silence in prayer leads to scarcity in life.
God responds to requests, not assumptions.

Principle: Heaven is not moved by need; it is moved by asking in faith.

4️⃣ Asking With the Wrong Motive Cancels the Answer

“When you ask, you ask with wrong motives…”
This is the most dangerous one.
You’re praying—but for ego.
You’re asking—but for status.
You want more—but only to consume, not contribute.

Principle: God does not finance selfish ambition; He funds divine purpose.

FINAL THOUGHT (DON’T MISS THIS):
If you want what God wants you to have,
you must want it the way God wants you to want it
and for the reason God wants you to have it.
Check your desire.
Check your prayer life.
Check your motive.
Because sometimes the reason you don’t have
is not because God said no…
…it’s because God’s principles said stop.

What stood out to you most from James 4:2–3?

10/01/2026

6 bedroom duplex