19/09/2026
A letter to me. And perhaps to you.
How lovely it is to become more yourself rather than constantly trying to become a better version of yourself.
It's exhausting trying to be a better human all the time. Why not just relax and accept yourself?
I think real estate probably amplified that need to keep proving myself. Being good at your job is one thing. Spending your life proving it to everyone else is another.
And it's not just work. The pressure to do more, achieve more, look better and generally appear to have your s**t together.
It's not that I've run out of ideas, plans or things I'd love to do. Quite the opposite, actually.
But I'm starting to wonder how much of it I really want, and how much I've just got used to thinking I should.
