23/11/2024
To all the ladies out there, don't ever ignore the red flags and know your partner properly before saying yes 🥺 choose a man who will respect you and give you peace of mind, don’t settle for an immature boy, a boy who doesn’t value your worth, or a boy who takes you for granted, a boy na laging nanunumbat nong mga nabigay nila.
Jan is a Teacher in Thailand, and Joshua is seaman. And this is Jan's statement:
“A relationship will never work if one partner is independent and the other one is immature”
“He broke my trust. Alam mo yung ginawa mo. I was so stressed that time sa mga nakita ko, ang dami nila. Siguro tatanggapin ko pa kung hindi pinay yun”
“Sobrang payat at stress ko non. I broke up with you kasi sobra na yung anxiety ko non. You know what he did? He manipulated me na kung iiwan ko siya tatalon siya sa barko. I didn't even think of myself that time kasi mas inisip kita kasi baka tatalon ka talaga. I healed by myself and forgive him”
“Pinalipas ko at hindi na naisip yung red flag. Not until, may isa pa pala at nakakatakot, money issues and overthinking ang involved na dito. Kahit may little arguments kami, lagi niyang sinusumbat saakin yung natulong niya where in fact it's his willingness to help”
“Hindi pera mo ang habol ko at wala akong pakialam diyan. I make my own money. When we broke up, I wanted to release a statement pero sabi niya wag daw kasi pagtatawanan siya ng mga kasamahan niya sa barko but one day he started posting cryptic post na I cheated on him"
“He proposed twice , yes. First sa condo ko, we had a huge fight pero lumuhod siya, umiyak siya with a ring and pleasing me to say yes and I was cornered that time seeing him cry because I love him. Second, when we travel sa Singapore. Kinuha niya yung ring kasi magpo-propose daw siya ulit"
“Sobrang boy, instead of being a man in a relationship that's why I'm slowly getting tired. Wala kang plano sa wedding, ako lahat, at parang wala lang sayo”
&Joshua
