12/31/2023
Happy birthday to my heavenly Angel momma Mary Smithers 🥳 You are missed EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. But you live on in all of us. In all of your children and grandchildren, in all of your family and friends, and in all of the people that you (or us) didn’t even know were your friends. I miss your energy, I miss your temperance, I miss your smile and your warmth, I miss your care and how kind you always were regardless of the situation )until the Capricorn in you had enough 😆), I miss your voice when you would answer your phone to my calls “Hi hon!”, I miss your hair, I miss your dedication, I miss how you thought diet Dr Pepper and a nutty bar was a substantial breakfast, I miss how cold you always were and needed to wear a parka in the summer time, I miss how you always nagged at dad for his driving and the eye rolls you used to give him when he was being “dirty” (your eyes would roll back in your head now 😆), I miss how much you brought us all together even though you spent most of your time on your computer making sure your Girl Scouts were taken care of, but that was you and you were still there. Now you’re not and I miss that. Momma I’ve been lost without you, my compass, my true North. There’s been so much noise and other energies surrounding our world and lives since you passed that I’ve found it hard to connect to you. I’m removing those energies and focusing on what matters and you are, and always have been, my compass and my direction and I owe it to you to live and LOVE on in your honor. No one will EVER compare to you or replace you, there will never be anyone that can hold a candle to your flame, your life and legacy will be honored through your children and we will live in respect and remembrance of you every single day. Your children (the local ones 😉) showed up for you today at one of your favorite spots La Casita and we will continue to do that every year ALWAYS remembering you, never forgetting you, always loving you and forever missing you 😘 I love you momma, you lil brat getting outta here before things really got bad 😆😂 stinker 😜 I hope you got deeners and snow and Denise and your dad up there with you right now looking at us, loving us, we miss you all. Happy Birthday momma! You are NEVER forgotten 💓