06/12/2026
One of the hardest things I've ever done is walk alongside my mom through all the transitions of aging.
Not long ago, Mom was living independently and vibrantly in her own home. Then she began to have falls, and memory issues. Then came the difficult decisions that so many families face. I moved her into assisted living, sold her home, held estate sales, sorted through a lifetime of beautiful memories, and tried to make the best decisions I could for her future.
Not long after, she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's.
That diagnosis changed everything.
As her needs increased, we moved her to a memory care facility. Anyone who has gone through this knows that every move comes with a mixture of emotions—hope, guilt, sadness, fear, and the constant question of whether you're doing enough.
Now Mom is bedridden in a nursing home and receiving hospice care.
What many people don't see is everything that happens behind the scenes. The countless doctor's appointments, phone calls, paperwork, financial decisions, care meetings, sleepless nights, and the emotional weight of watching someone you love slowly become more dependent on others.
The hardest part isn't just making the decisions. It's watching the gradual changes. It's grieving the pieces of the person you once knew while still loving and caring for the person who is right in front of you today.
There are days when I feel strong, and there are days when I feel completely overwhelmed.
But through every transition, one thing has remained constant: she is still my mom, and I love her ❤️.
I still hold her hand. I still talk to her. I still kiss her. I still tell her I love her. I still cherish every smile, every moment of recognition, every opportunity to simply be present.
This journey has taught me that caregiving is an act of love that requires strength you never knew you had. And if you're walking this road with a parent or loved one, please know you're not alone.
Some days we're caregivers.
Some days we're advocates.
Some days we're exhausted.
But every day, we're loving someone through one of the most difficult seasons of life. The best thing is meet them where they are as God does us.
And that's not easy. Here's to you all who have been through or are going through this too! I see you and I hear you.