06/06/2024
It started like this, why I shut down my business temporarily, unknown time frame, but I will be back! I love my work. I love life.
This was a surprise with many other factors. It wasn’t financial negligence - it was lack of knowledge and something aggressive, and a financial attack by my sister, I never thought I would have a go fund me, it was a beautiful start to a beautiful season and I was teaching my stepson how to climb trees with the most advanced equipment! I was looking forward to a beautiful summer, life happens-
I’ve been home for five weeks straight can’t leave,
The pictures are in order of her comfort level. I don’t want to show too much but you probably get the picture, things progress very quickly aggressively in a criers literal 24 seven Care, I don’t care about myself in a situation like this only the people that are important to me , and the sweetest woman you could ever meet my mother always kind and gentle in her ways. Her family and daughter would be there for her, but they are not except for her brother and his family that have been constantly in contact visited and kind.
As soon as my sister learned of my mothers condition, the first thing she did was rob me of all my money! The very little that my father left me she has in full, a small trust fund gone-
I’ve never needed Facebook. I’ve never needed to advertise, always been reliable trusted resourceful from $300 jobs to $3 million jobs,
And I’ll get back to that, right now help me get back to that you can if not wait to see if I make it through this and never count me out
There’s a post on my personal page for just Ben Hermes and the original post on my wife’s page for Jennifer, Cox Hermes, take a look, please
I’m not good with Facebook and I’m not good with asking for anything, I’m good at helping others and I absolutely love my job because it is my life and I miss it along with likely this summer - I’m letting down my stepson, simply by not being there, we have an amazing bond I never imagined being away from
I haven’t left my home in five weeks, the aggressive nature of this requires 24 seven care and it’s only because of my amazing wife. Every appropriate doctor is ASAP,
All of this means absolutely nothing if I can’t pay enough bills to keep my phone on keep my truck rolling. Keep getting medical supplies and basic necessities at a minimum, there’s a mountain of things I was not aware of, if I had previous knowledge, I would not be in this predicament
I don’t care about me right now. I care about my mother‘s comfort and that’s not possible unless I am able to provide her with everything she needs. There was no time we’re working on every other Avenue possible, for now I need to keep the lights on. I need her warm safe as comfortable as she can be –
I look forward to a beautiful future, but right now I do this because it’s the right thing to do and I’m not asking for me and to all my clients that know me and all my friends you can also just give me a call bypass Facebook, if I can’t leave this home, I can’t work. I don’t know how long I’m going to be here
Please visit my page and my wife’s page, I hate to ask, but for her and for me to have a future it’s very simple. I need some help, anything will do to keep me afloat -
It would be amazing if it was like other fundraisers,
I saw a beautiful couple with a beautiful animal, a cat or a dog or something a go fund me for their dream vacation they’ve always wanted and they kept out at over $64,000? For them to go on vacation, we’re trying to save lives.
I’ll never understand Facebook, but I understand taking care of the people that you love
Please take a look or just give me a call if not, I’ll be back with my regular post at sometime in the future
God bless and take great care of each other – currently you never know how much time you have left -
I was never that close with my family just barbecues and small get-togethers and I had no idea how disfunctional they are-
Anything helps I need to keep my self rolling enough to take care of my mother, plain and simple,
Thank you again and don’t forget about me. Come back at some point and see if I’ve made it through this or not. God bless.