10/19/2026
If you’re thinking about putting yourself out there on social media, let me tell you something…You’re going to p**s people off just by showing up. 🤪
I posted a YouTube video talking about Micron coming to Central New York. Literally just sharing information about what’s happening in our backyard.
Well, apparently Barbara wasn’t having it 🤣
Multiple comments, paragraphs of opinions, responding to other people in my comment section. You would’ve thought I personally approved the entire Micron project.
And it reminded me of something I’ve learned over the last couple of years of consistently putting myself out there.
You have to get comfortable being judged.
There are people who will criticize how you look, how you talk, what you believe, what you post, and things you never even said.
Some people will disagree with you just because they can. And the reality is, there are a LOT of people who spend more time criticizing what others are doing than actually doing anything themselves.
But here’s where things change…
When you stop worrying about being judged and start judging the judgment itself, you realize how ridiculous most of it is.
Think about it. You’re sitting there worried about what someone might think of your video, your business, your ideas, or your appearance.
Meanwhile, some complete stranger is spending their afternoon writing essays in a YouTube comment section because they didn’t like something you said.😝🤣
Why on earth would you let that person determine what you’re willing to put out into the world?
I’ve spent the last 18+ months consistently creating content, building my brand, and talking about something I’m genuinely passionate about…and you know what’s happened?
I’ve met incredible people, built relationships, generated business, opened doors I never would’ve imagined, and connected with people who appreciate the information I’m sharing.
None of that would’ve happened if I let the fear of judgment stop me.
So if you’re sitting on an idea, afraid to post your first video, start your business, or put yourself out there because you’re worried about what people might say…
Just remember, Barbara is out there somewhere and she’s probably already typing. 😂
Post the damn video. Build the brand. Keep showing up.
The right people will find you 💯🚀