01/17/2024
Every mom will understand this post and picture.....Over Christmas I was able to visit my son Joshua Junnier and his beautiful wife Leigh Ann Pezick....I try so hard to not be intrusive in their lives as I remember what it was like to be 28 married, being in love, engrossed in a career and making my husband's and my own family traditions.... With both myself and Jason's parents being divorced we had young children and always felt pulled to scurry from one house to the next to make sure that everyone got to spend time with the boys.... It was exhausting... I remember... So when Joshua and LeighAnn invited us over to spend Christmas with them and Leigh Ann's parents. (Diane Lee Pezick and Jeff who have been instrumental in my son's life) I was so excited. My feelings have been hurt occasionally (my own fault for not inviting myself to visit them or just show up) but this Christmas, this year, was very special! I was able to spend a few days with them in "their" home that I had never seen, fall in love with the area that they live in North Carolina, see them both in the careers that have chosen and are excelling at......I was able to watch them in "their element" at home and at work... I am forever grateful.... Of course I had "followed" the organization that both are employed at High Hampton and flip through their pictures that they post because it has some of the most beautiful scenery!! And now that I was treated to dinner there, I LOVE LOVE LOVE admiring the food LOL. Thank You Leigh Ann Pezick for helping me decide on dishes that I could not pronounce....Today the Lodge posted some pictures of an event that Leighann had organized and put together..(It looks like it turned out beautiful..... (No surprise because she is incredibly talented)... You could see the excitement of folks that were having a tasting with this this up and coming wine maker and what his contributions will mean in their industry... As I was scrolling I came across this picture... Other than the bottle.... I saw the hands.....These were the hands of my son.... When he was born 28 year ago these hands grabbed my two finders in a strong way letting me know he was here in this world and a tough guy... It was a challenging, surprise pregnancy because I was told that we wouldn't have children..5 years into our marriage, a routine surgery scheduled, and some pre surgery blood work, brought the news that I was pregnant. I had never been so excited or so scared...the pregnancy was high risk I was off my feet from 29 weeks until he was born early at 36 weeks.....the first thing he did then the doctor handed him to me was grab my hands with his.... Those hands held mine grocery shopping, being dropped off at school, held mine as he fell asleep every night when we read Rainbow Fish, Where The Sidewalk ends... and Where the Wild Things Are.....His hands grabbed mine as we would cannon ball jump into the pool together....those hands wrote short award winning stories....Soooo much talent...... He is now 28 Junnier is a level 2 sommelier as well as the Food & Service Beverage Manager of the resort. He works alongside award winning chefs for menu and pairing pairings... He is talented. His team respects him, and he is confident in how he chooses to run the business....(well traveled, smart, articulate, educated and full of passion) And I watched him shake hands with those at dinner I saw the confidence that he has found as an adult.... Although I felt like I have missed out on things I would have loved to be a part of..... seeing that picture of him all grown up, and knowing that seeing his hand , so strong, as he confidently held the bottle.... I didn't need to see that the person was my son.... The hands said it :) I know that he will always know that we love him... He was our first son, a miracle and as a thriving adult he will go far with those hands!!
I hope he holds Leighann's hands often....They continue to always defend each other and they grow.... And Christmas next year in North Carolina would be great again hint hint!! I love you guys and I loved every minute,that I got to spend, a little more time getting to you know you as an adult man that has so much to offer, and LeighAnn's family that is now a part of yours!!! If you didn't see the excitement of being around "family" I want to express once again that this was a very special time that I will cherish!
Love
MOM