09/23/2026
If you’re not already aware, Wanchese, North Carolina, is a fishing village steeped in heritage, tucked away on the southern end of the quaintest of little islands, Roanoke Island.
It’s where I grew up.
More than that, it’s the place that made me.
When I want to name a pet something quirky like Moon, I know it’s because Wanchesers have always had an affinity for names that make outsiders furrow their brows and say, “Can you say that again?”
It’s probably the reason I’m rarely very serious, and why I find such utter delight when my friends start making fun of one another in that old, familiar way that sounds almost offensive to anyone listening in, but is somehow deeply endearing when you know the language.
It’s why I love horses.
It’s why I love a good summer storm when I simply cannot take one more day of sweltering heat.
And it’s why I absolutely adore the electricity in the air before a fall nor’easter.
This is by no means scientific, but I have come to believe, probably because my Daddy believed it, that Wanchese sits in some peculiar little geographic sweet spot that almost beckons storms toward it. As though the village owns them. As though somehow, they belong there and nowhere else.
Daddy would explain that because we sat northwest of Oregon Inlet, sandwiched between the Croatan and Roanoke Sounds, we could get afternoon thunderstorms that seemed to materialize out of nowhere. Storms that, somehow, nobody else could see. Not even our neighbors in Manteo or Manns Harbor.
Before one popped up, Mama or Daddy would holler, “Go grab the clothes off the line!”
And once the laundry was safely inside, we would settle ourselves onto the swinging chair on our front porch and watch it roll in.
I couldn’t begin to tell you how many times my father and I sat on that porch together, watching a storm arrive with fury and drama and then disappear almost as quickly as it came.
Those are some of my favorite memories.
Now I live on what the locals call “the beach,” north of Wanchese in Southern Shores. But I can still feel that same electricity in the air before a good nor’easter.
In the fall, I love the way the leaves begin to swirl around the front yard.
I love that sudden crispness in the air that wasn’t there just a few hours before.
I love that I can hear the ocean unfurling itself onto the banks of the Atlantic from my front porch, even though I’m a solid mile or two away.
And when the storm finally arrives?
I love that, too.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m sorry for the tourists whose beach week gets ruined. I’m sorry for the homeowners who planned to drive down for a few precious days to escape the busyness of life. I’m not insensitive to the fact that a good coastal storm can wreck even the best-laid plans.
But I also think storms bring with them opportunities we sometimes fail to notice.
If you like to bake, this is your chance.
If you enjoy a good pot of chili, fire up the stove.
Dust off the board games or the cards and sit down with your family for a night of belly laughs.
Put on some old clothes, head down to a beach access, stand in the wind and rain at the edge of the world, and watch the sheer might of Mother Nature as the ocean swirls and pitches and throws everything she has toward the shore.
Feel that cool breeze after an unrelentingly hot summer.
Read a book.
Hell, write a book.
Ignore the crab pots for a little while, even though you know they’ll be tossed around and you’ll have to go hunt them down later.
Dock the boats. Put out the fenders. Secure the lines. Bring in anything that might blow away.
Do all the things we coastal people know to do.
And when all the preparation has passed, maybe have a cold one at a local dive.
But mostly, settle in.
Let the storm give you permission to stop.
To rest.
To listen to the wind howl through the trees and the ocean roar in the distance.
To sit a little longer with the people you love.
Because soon enough, the wind will quiet.
The clouds will break.
The sun will show her face again.
And we’ll step outside, pick up the branches, find the crab pots, straighten what got knocked sideways, and go right back to living.
That, too, is the way of things here.
There is something beautiful about knowing the storm will come.
And something even more beautiful about knowing it will pass.
That is the rhythm of this place.
And it is one of the many reasons I will always love our treasured Outer Banks culture.