10/12/2026
One thing buyers often refuse to believe until it is too late is that sometimes they have to stretch a little to get the house they want.
I see it especially when buyers are making offers.
I try to explain what homes are actually selling for and what they may need to do to make their offer competitive.
Sometimes it is a little more money.
Sometimes it is making a reasonable adjustment to the inspection terms.
Sometimes it is simply understanding what the seller is looking for and making the offer stronger.
And I know that is difficult.
Nobody wants to feel like they are paying too much.
But the reality is that if you are in a competitive market, you have to make decisions based on what is happening in the market, not what you wish were happening.
Sometimes buyers have to miss out on a house.
I am okay with that.
In fact, I think there are times when buyers need to lose one or two houses so they can understand what the market is telling them.
I am not an “I told you so” person.
If you are not ready to make that adjustment today, I will be there for the third house, or the fourth house, or the one after that.
My job is not to pressure you into buying something.
My job is to help you understand the market so that when the right house comes along, you are prepared to act.
And sometimes the lesson comes from missing the house you really wanted.