04/30/2026
I do think that lake Meredith harbor is testing out a new strategy. They're having individual sue people for them because they're unable to enforce anything. Here's what to know. Sure this is under advice from the attorney. But I'm just guessing it's my opinion.
1. Can a neighbor sue you instead of the HOA?
Yes. Most HOA deed restrictions (CC&Rs) include language allowing “any owner” to enforce the rules—not just the HOA.
So even if the HOA never enforces anything, a private owner can still file suit.
👉 That part alone usually does hold up legally.
2. Selective enforcement (this is where your argument gets stronger)
Texas courts recognize a defense called “selective enforcement” or “waiver/abandonment.”
If you can show:
The HOA (and neighbors) have regularly ignored similar violations, and
The restriction is not uniformly enforced,
then a court may refuse to enforce it against you.
This is sometimes called “waiver”—basically, they’ve let the rule slide so much that enforcing it now is unfair.
3. “Unclean hands” / inequitable enforcement
Related to that is an equitable defense:
If the person suing (or the HOA backing them) is violating the same or similar rules,
Or is acting unfairly or inconsistently,
you can argue they come to court with “unclean hands.”
4. Architectural control / approval issues
If your HOA requires:
Building permits
Architectural approval
…but they:
Never require it from anyone else
Never enforce it
Never deny other similar structures
Then you may argue:
The restriction has been abandoned, or
You were treated arbitrarily or capriciously
Texas courts do not like HOAs enforcing rules in a random or unequal way.
5. Conflict of interest concern (important in your situation)
This part is worth digging into:
If the attorney suing you is the same attorney who represents the HOA, and
The HOA is effectively using a private individual to do what it won’t do itself
That can raise conflict-of-interest or abuse-of-process concerns, especially if:
HOA resources are being used indirectly
The lawsuit is acting as a workaround for HOA inaction
It’s not automatically illegal—but it’s something a defense attorney would absolutely explore.
6. Standing and actual harm
You mentioned:
The neighbor lives 2 miles away
Has no view impact
That matters.
Courts sometimes consider whether:
The plaintiff is actually affected or harmed, or
This is purely technical enforcement
While lack of harm alone doesn’t kill a case, it helps your position, especially combined with selective enforcement.
7. Possible defenses you may have
Based on what you said, you may be able to argue:
Selective enforcement
Waiver / abandonment of restrictions
Unclean hands
Arbitrary enforcement
Lack of actual damages or harm
Possibly estoppel (if they let others build similar structures without issue)
8. What they’re trying to get from you
Typically, these lawsuits aim for:
Injunction (force you to modify or remove the structure)
Possibly attorney’s fees (this is the big risk in Texas HOA cases)
Texas law often allows the winning party in a deed restriction case to recover attorney’s fees.
9. Reality check
Here’s the blunt truth:
Even if they’ve been inconsistent, courts sometimes still enforce restrictions
BUT if you have solid evidence of widespread violations, your chances improve significantly
This kind of case often turns on: 👉 How many similar violations exist 👉 How long they’ve been ignored 👉 Whether enforcement is clearly uneven
10. What you should do next (practical steps)
Start building evidence immediately:
Photos of other two-story structures or similar violations
Proof that others didn’t get permits/approval
HOA records (or lack of enforcement letters)
Meeting minutes if available
Also:
Check your CC&Rs carefully (who can enforce architectural rules, etc.)
Find out if your county requires permits regardless of HOA rules
11. You need a Texas real estate / HOA attorney
This is not a DIY situation if you’ve been sued.
You want someone experienced in:
Texas property law
HOA litigation
Injunction defense
They can:
Raise the defenses properly
Possibly file a counterclaim
Push on the conflict-of-interest angle
Bottom line
Yes, a neighbor can sue you—even if the HOA doesn’t enforce rules
BUT your situation has real defenses, especially if enforcement has been inconsistent
The HOA using a private person to enforce rules while ignoring others could work against them