05/24/2026
Today, I carry you in my heart. 🇺🇸
One of the most profound moments of my youth was visiting the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery. Even thinking about it now moves me. If you haven’t seen it yet, it is worth its weight in airline flights.
Before modern DNA technology, identifying remains was a massive challenge. The tomb holds three unidentified service members—representing the countless unnamed losses from WWI, WWII, and the Korean War.
The soldier volunteers who guard the Tomb undergo a rigid selection process and intensive training to execute a strict routine steeped in symbolism:
* 21 steps, a pause for 21 seconds facing East, a pause for 21 seconds facing North, and another 21 steps.
* The number 21 symbolizes the highest military honor: the 21-gun salute.
* They always place their weapon on the shoulder closest to visitors, signifying they stand between the Tomb and any possible threat. (ArlingtonCemetery.mil)
Since July 2, 1937, they’ve never broken their 24/7 watch. Not for blazing heat, hurricanes, blizzards, or below-zero temperatures.
Standing there as a youth, I was transfixed. I couldn’t leave. You can palpably feel the simultaneous immensity of loss, grief, respect, honor, and fierce love wrapped up in the intentionality of that routine.
This year marks 100 years since the tomb was made, before the 24/7 watch was set in force.
To you who once loved, lost, and lived—and you who were loved, now lost: even if unknown, you are not forgotten. Thank you for giving your life.
And to you who loved, lost, and still live: I know that you remember them.
And though I may not know you, today, I remember you.