Taya DiCarlo, Realtor

Taya DiCarlo, Realtor Founding Agent Compass South Bay | Realtor Specializing in Luxury Residential Sales & Investment Prop

09/17/2026

I’ve talked clients out of houses they were in love with.

On purpose. And I’d do it again.

Because my job is not to find you a house.

I say that to every new buyer client and the look on their face is priceless. A little realtor rage bait, if you will. 😏

My job is to negotiate you the best possible deal on the RIGHT house — so when it’s done you’re high-fiving each other, and you feel good about what is arguably the biggest investment of your life.

Which means before we ever write an offer, I’m running a full comparative market analysis on the house you love. Not a gut feeling. Evidence.

Sometimes my advice is to come in under.
Sometimes it’s to come in over, because you do not want to lose this one.
And sometimes it’s to walk away.

Most people assume realtors are commission hungry and just want to get paid. I care about working with you more than once. So if a house doesn’t meet your standards, or it’s way outside the criteria you gave me, I’m going to say so. I always try to tell my clients what they need to hear, not just what they want to hear.

I’m not going to tell you what to do. I’m going to be your Sherpa. I’ll guide you, I’ll give you Tea’s two cents, and I’ll support you either way.

👉🏼 So if you’re house shopping and haven’t hired an agent yet — don’t hire someone just to open doors and write up a contract.

Ask them these 3 things first ⬇️

🔑 What’s your negotiation track record? How often do you get clients under list, and by how much?
🔑 Will you run a full CMA before I write an offer, or just tell me what to bid?
🔑 Have you ever talked a client out of a house?

That last one tells you everything 👀

09/15/2026

To my 39-year-old self:
Hey. It’s me—Future You 🦋
I’m on the other side of that s**t-storm of a divorce, and I wish I could give you the biggest hug and tell you what you desperately need to hear right now:
It is SO gonna be okay🥹
Nearly 4 years have passed. You’re happy. You’re healthy. You’re thriving. You 🩷 your life more than you can possibly fathom right now.
And guess what? Your kids are happy and healthy too. So is your ex.

Healing won’t be linear, so give yourself some grace. This next chapter is going to teach you more about yourself than you ever wanted to learn. 😂
It will also be the hardest mountain 🏔️ you’ve ever climbed.
Lean on your friends.
Lean on your family.
Be vulnerable in therapy.
Ask for help. And when it hurts, don’t run from it.
You don’t get over hard s**t. You can’t go around it or under it either.
You have to go through it.
And you will.

This heartache, confusion and fear is temporary. It’s one chapter in a very long story 📕
XOXO,
Taya (Fabulous & 44 🤍)
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I decided to share this because friends of friends call me all the time when they’re contemplating or going through divorce. They’re scared. Overwhelmed. Sometimes completely frozen by fear.
And I always say the same thing:
Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Try to make your marriage work first.
But if your marriage is truly over, this is what I wish someone had said to me in 2022:

You are not a failure.
Your marriage was not a failure.
Nobody gets married thinking they’ll get divorced.
And a “broken home” is NOT a divorced home. A broken home is one filled with fighting, anger, resentment and walking on eggshells.
There are beautiful, healthy families that exist on the other side of divorce too.

👉🏼This isn’t me telling anyone to get divorced👈🏼
It’s me talking to the woman who already knows her marriage is over but is terrified of what her life—and her family—might look like on the other side.
You deserve to be happy.
And your kids deserve to see their parents happy—whether that’s together or apart.

So if you happen to be the woman who needed to hear this today, I’m sending you th

09/11/2026

Plants are one of my favorite (and easiest) ways to instantly elevate a home.

I’ve used these exact plants 🪴 in homes I’ve sold—from a $6M condo on The Strand, to an $11M oceanfront home on The Esplanade—and I have every one of them in my own home too.

My 5 favorites:
🌿 Elephant Ear
🌿 Rubber Plant
🌿 Monstera
🌿 Calathea
🌿 Heartleaf Philodendron

They’re beautiful, relatively low maintenance, and you do NOT need to be a plant expert to keep them alive.

Fun fact: There’s actually a reason a home filled with living plants just feels better. Bringing nature indoors has been linked to reduced stress, improved mood + an overall sense of well-being. 🧘🏼‍♀️

And from a real estate perspective, there’s something you can’t quite measure about the warmth and life plants bring to a home. People feel it when they walk in. 🌿

Honorable mentions because apparently I can’t pick just 5 🙈 :
🌿 Philodendron Brasil
🌿 Dragon Tree

And if you think you don’t have a green thumb… you do. You just don’t know it yet.

I used to kill plants ALL the time. 😂 These are the ones that helped me build my confidence.

👉🏼If you live in the South Bay, pop by OC Succulents in 📍 Torrance this weekend! (It’s right next to Toro wholesale nursery) They’re so helpful and can help you choose based on lighting in your home. And feel free to tell them I sent you 🫶🏼💚🙋🏼‍♀️

Start with one. Keep it alive. Accidentally become a plant person. 🪴😂

Pictures don’t do this post hurricane sunset any justice 🤌🏼Last night I had a feeling that the sunset was going to be a ...
09/07/2026

Pictures don’t do this post hurricane sunset any justice 🤌🏼

Last night I had a feeling that the sunset was going to be a good one, so I dropped what I was doing and went down to the 📍 Manhattan Beach Pier to take it all in… every minute that past by it got even more magical🫶🏼✨

How could I share just one? 🧡

Unfiltered and unedited 🌅
📸 shot on my iPhone 17 pro max

09/02/2026

I am not getting paid to share these products with you… yet😏
So enjoy the fact that I am paying for this wisdom through good old-fashioned trial and error.

Comment SKINCARE for a list of all of my favorite must have skin care products, including many that are not mentioned in this video. I have included items that are well worth the splurge as well as products that you should buy over-the-counter and save your money.

This is just my 2 cents on what’s worth it and what’s not when it comes my own skincare routine. 😉

if you live in the South Bay and want to find out what products will work best for you go visit Montana Dillenberg Ollis RN, BSN | SkinSpirit and my girl gang over at SkinSpirit 📍 Manhattan Beach

09/02/2026

👉🏼Do not skip this step before your home appraisal:

Have your Realtor bring a CMA (comparative market analysis) to the appraisal the day it is being performed… and most importantly, make sure those sales comps are pulled the morning of the appraisal.

Also make sure you include a cheat sheet of all of the improvements that have been made to the property since it was purchased, that way the Appraiser has everything handy when they go back to their desk to finish the report.

The Appraiser for my home pulled his sales comps days in advance before even seeing my property in person! And even though I gave him a CMA in person, he did not take the time to review it and missed the most important sale in his report.

I had to go through the hassle of writing a lengthy rebuttal to the bank… and fortunately, I had enough evidence to show that he neglected to include valid sales that dramatically impacted the value of my home.

This just goes to show you have to be an advocate for yourself, or higher the right person to advocate on your behalf to ensure you are getting the best result.

Summer isn’t over just because August is (and most of the kids are back in school). ☀️ We still have 3 weeks left to soa...
09/02/2026

Summer isn’t over just because August is (and most of the kids are back in school). ☀️ We still have 3 weeks left to soak up every last drop.
Here are 3 ways I made the most of August—with my kids, my friends & with myself.
Hope it inspires you to squeeze a little more out of summer too. 🤌🏼

08/20/2026

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08/14/2026

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