Barbara Jelling Margulis, Coldwell Banker

02/11/2024

To all my Facebook friends celebrating,….

12/24/2023

For all my Facebook friends celebrating, I hope Santa treats you well ☺️

10/13/2023

"When my mom was cleaning out her house over 23 years ago to sell it, I wasn't very sympathetic over her attachments to things. I would go over on weekends to help her, and we would go through things...things for a yard sale, things to donate, things to throw away. I would usually get upset over how long it was taking her to decide. For instance, we were going through kitchen cabinets, and she spent 20 minutes looking at a black iron kettle with a lid. Finally I said,

“Mom, at this rate it is going to take us another 2 years.”

She told me that her mother used to make meals in that kettle and leave them at doorsteps of neighbors during the depression. Mom would deliver them, and then they would reappear back on her porch with an apron, or a wood carving; something in return for the meal. I realized that everything that my mom was going through was really a reliving of her life.

If you are reading this and are under the age of 60, you wont get it. You haven't lived long enough. Most of you have not had to move your parents into a nursing home, or broken up their home. You haven't lived long enough to realize that the hours you spend picking out the right cabinets, or the perfect tile will not be what matters in the later years. It will be the handmade toothbrush holder, or a picture that you took on vacation.

So, if your parents are downsizing, and moving to smaller places, or selling a home, give your mom and even your dad a break. Those things that you don't understand why they can’t just pitch, and why you think you know what needs to be tossed or saved, give them a little time to make their decisions. They are saying goodbye to their past, and realizing that they are getting ready for their end of life, while you are just beginning your life.

As I have been going through things, its amazing just how hard it is to get rid of objects. But, life goes on, and you realize they are just things; but sometimes things comfort us. So give your parents or grandparents a break. Listen to their stories, because in 40 years, when you are going through those boxes and the memories come back, it will be hard to get rid of those reminders of precious moments that make up a life well lived.

You just don't have a clue until it happens to you, and then you will remember how you rushed them, and it will make you sad, especially if they are already gone, and you can't say, 'I’m sorry...I just didn't understand' until it's too late."

Melissa Vaughan

10/07/2023

Just a heads up for anyone looking for a great 6 room, 2 bedroom, 2 1/2 bath end unit Townhouse for $445,000. Wonderful Basking Ridge location. First Open House Sunday 10/6 from 1-4.

09/07/2023

Important read. Save the integrity of our town

Additional residential apartments will put burden on already strained School System in Livingston NJ and Traffic Management as well as Township amenities such as Water, Sewage and Fire Departments. Furthermore, 45 South Livingston Ave is at the center (epicenter) of the most congested & dangerou...

07/28/2023

Additional residential apartments will put burden on already strained School System in Livingston NJ and Traffic Management as well as Township amenities such as Water, Sewage and Fire Departments

06/17/2023

Wishing All Dads a Happy Fathers Day

05/31/2023

OUTDOOR SHOW - FAMILY FRIENDLY - NO COVER!!!
And, we will be joined by a special guest for a few songs in the second set. Come on out to the beautiful Readington Brewery. Fri 6/2, 6pm-9pm

12/18/2022