Mary Spence Bottone Realty

Mary Spence Bottone Realty Real estate agent in Monmouth and Ocean County. I specialize in first time home buyers.

08/12/2026

If you're waiting for mortgage rates to fall a lot before you buy, you may be waiting a while.

08/07/2026

Imagine waiting a year to buy a home, only to find mortgage rates haven't changed much. That may sound frustrating. But it's a real possibility.

07/23/2026

Remember how exciting it was to buy your first place?

06/17/2026

One of the biggest reasons buyers are still sitting on the sidelines is because they think home prices are going to come down.

Sharing this wonderful post that another friend shared earlier. Horse people feel this already but we all tend to forget...
06/16/2026

Sharing this wonderful post that another friend shared earlier. Horse people feel this already but we all tend to forget it at times!

Sometimes I sit with my horses and wonder what they would think of the lives we've built for ourselves.

The rushing.

The striving.

The endless pressure to become more than we are.

More successful.
More productive.
More accomplished.
More impressive.

Human beings spend so much of their lives trying to arrive somewhere.

And yet when I look at horses, I see beings who seem completely uninterested in arrival.

A horse grazing in the morning sun is not waiting for their real life to begin.

An old horse standing quietly with friends is not worrying that they haven't achieved enough.

A foal does not spend its first years trying to prove its worth.

They simply live.

Not perfectly.

Not lazily.

Not aimlessly.

Just fully.

Present for the breeze.

Present for the rain.

Present for companionship.

Present for rest.

Present for play.

There is a wisdom in that.

Not because horses have all the answers.

But because they seem untouched by one of humanity's greatest illusions:

The belief that our value exists somewhere in the future.

That we will finally be worthy when we become something else.

When we accomplish enough.

When we heal enough.

When we succeed enough.

When we are enough.

The horses keep offering a different possibility.

A quieter one.

A gentler one.

What if worth is not a destination?

What if it has been here all along?

What if the life you're trying so hard to earn is already happening?

Maybe that is one of the reasons horses can feel so healing to be around.

For a little while, standing beside them, we remember something we have spent years forgetting.

That existence itself is not something that needs to be justified.

And neither are we.

04/13/2026

With economic headlines, global events, and near constant talk about affordability, you may be wondering if this is the right time to move.

04/09/2026

If you’ve been looking for a home lately, you’ve probably felt how tough affordability still is.

04/02/2026

Be honest. Have you started looking at homes online yet? If you have, it’s already time to get pre-approved.

03/26/2026

While the Spring season consistently offers up some of the best conditions for home sellers, Realtor.com says there’s one window where the stars really seem to align year after year. And it’s coming up fast.

03/25/2026

Mortgage rates have been volatile lately. And if you’re thinking about buying a home, that can make it harder to plan.

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