08/26/2026
Selling a home during a divorce can require an entirely different level of communication and transaction management.
In this particular sale, I represented two sellers who ultimately wanted the same thing: successfully sell the home and move forward.
But they didn’t always view every decision the same way, and each seller had their own attorney.
The interesting part of this transaction was that marketing the home and finding the buyer were not the difficult parts.
The real challenge began after the contract was signed.
At that point, I still had all of the normal responsibilities that come with selling a home — inspections, deadlines, negotiations, communication with the buyer’s side, financing and closing preparation — while also coordinating appropriately with two sellers and their legal counsel.
And there was an important boundary I had to maintain throughout the process.
I was their Realtor.
I was not their therapist.
I was not their divorce mediator.
And I was not their attorney.
My responsibility was to explain the real estate implications of the decisions in front of them, make sure each seller had an opportunity to be heard, communicate appropriately with the professionals involved, and continually bring the conversation back to the goal we all shared:
What needs to happen to get this home successfully to closing?
If you’re going through a divorce and know the home may need to be sold, the Realtor you choose needs to be able to do more than market the property.
They need to remain calm when communication becomes complicated, understand their professional boundaries, work effectively alongside attorneys, manage contractual responsibilities, and protect the stability of the transaction from contract through closing.
For homeowners in DuPage County, the western suburbs, and throughout Chicagoland, that can be one of the most important considerations when choosing who will handle the sale.
The divorce itself belongs with your attorneys and other appropriate professionals.
The real estate transaction needs someone capable of leading it.
That’s what this video is about.