10/09/2026
Contributed by Ronda Theisen
A little more than 10 years ago, my community association was sacked by our management company. It wasn’t personal. The company had enough of our dysfunctional board and terminated the contract after only one year. It was a fulfilling community redemption arc when I found myself accepting the Homeowner Leader of the Year Award at CAI’s 2025 annual conference.
Built in the early 1970s, the 100-unit high-rise where I bought a unit in 2013 sits along the Truckee River in Reno, Nev. I was elected to the board in 2015.
The peaceful setting belied a seething undercurrent of hostility. Our board was toxic. We drove off our attorney. I lost sleep. I even feared for my safety. Getting dumped by our management company was the last straw. Three months into my term, I quit.
Resigning from the board didn’t solve any problems. The dysfunction intensified. The resignation created a bitter divide in the community that would take years to heal. In the meantime, the association was frozen in place, the heated language hurled at loud and long meetings was incapable of producing a thaw.
When I quit, I thought I could prompt change from the outside. I challenged board decisions. I exposed violations of statutory law and our governing documents. In short, I was the owner every board hates.
Worse yet, even when I was right, I was ineffective. Off the board, I had the power to disrupt everything but not the power to change anything.
Knowledge became my ally and gave me confidence to keep at it. I took multiple CAI classes and earned the Dedicated Community Association Leader designation from CAI’s Nevada Chapter. I decided to give board service another try. Three years after I resigned, I was re-elected.
Healing our community’s divide began with treating each other with respect, especially when we disagreed. Our community was so used to eye-rolling, gum-smacking vitriol that civility caught them by surprise.
It took a couple of recalls and resignations, but the culture slowly shifted. Modeling good behavior begets good behavior. Change comes from the inside and is contagious. It comes from average people willing to become the leaders their community needs.
I learned a lot from this experience, particularly the value of education, transparency, and civility. I also learned the importance of not giving up. I shouldn’t have resigned in the face of adversity. Instead of finding a way to work through my board’s dysfunction, I left the sore to fester. I thought our problems were unique and I was alone.
I realize now that with a little more time I would have learned from our common experiences and developed the knowledge and skills needed to govern effectively. I might have spared my community years of discord.
From walking away to walking across a stage to accept an award, it has been quite a journey. Was it cosmic irony? I like to think of it as community redemption.
Ronda Theisen is president of the 1200 Riverside Drive Community Association in Reno, Nev