07/09/2026
When Shana and I decided to pick up our lives last year and move our family back to South Dakota, it wasn't an easy decision. We had established a life and a home away from the Black Hills. We had done it our way and with the advice of close friends and family, we were able to thrive. It wasn't always an easy journey, and it was sometimes a lonely one, as all of our family was back here in South Dakota and surrounding areas. However, we did it. Shana became a successful medical assistant and worked for great organizations along the way. I was able to complete 25 years of military service, with 14 being on active duty.
We both grew, we experienced personal growth and familial growth with our amazing three kids, Lily, Natalie, and Luca. We had established as near a perfect life as you can imagine. Then one day a decision was made that enough was enough for me in the military. Our lives were about to change forever and decisions had to be made. It wasn't easy. We prayed a lot and sought out guidance from those we trusted most. In the end we knew what was going to be best for our family. A move back to the place that we started our journey so many years before.
This last year hasn't been easy for our girls or our family. However, it too has come with growth. We have learned to deal with the trials and tribulation of picking up our lives and moving them 10 hours away from everything we had known for 17 years. Don't get me wrong, we love being back, but it has come with it's own struggles. We all had to see the move for what it is, an opportunity. An opportunity to experience new things, old friends, and a better life.
As I type this extremely long post, I realize that it's not about where you end up, it's about the growth and maturity that happens along the way. So enjoy your journey but be cognizant of the growth that comes with it. Don't take for granted where you were, but also, celebrate where you are going. Don't be afraid to rock the boat and do things that make you uncomfortable. Chase your dreams and live life to the fullest! If you made it to the end, thank you for reading.
