06/30/2026
I think one of the biggest lies in real estate is that buying a home is primarily an investment.
Don't get me wrong—I absolutely want my clients to make smart financial decisions. But if you're buying a home based only on spreadsheets, you might miss the reason you wanted to move in the first place.
First, your home shapes your daily life. It determines how long you commute, whether your kids can walk to the park, whether you drink coffee on a deck with a view or stare at a fence, and whether your weekends are spent hiking, surfing, gardening, or sitting in traffic.
Second, the most successful buyers I know don't chase the 'perfect investment.' They chase the lifestyle they want to wake up to every morning. The investment often follows because they stay longer, care for the property, and build equity over time.
Third, nobody looks back twenty years later and says, 'I'm so glad I chose the house with the slightly better cap rate.' They remember birthday parties in the backyard, dinners with family, neighbors who became lifelong friends, and watching their kids grow up. Those experiences are the real return on investment.
When I sit down with clients, I spend a lot more time asking about the life they want than the house they want. What community do I want my family to be a part of? Do you want to walk to coffee? Do you want acreage and chickens? A surf check from your front porch? A quiet mountain retreat? A shorter commute so you can have dinner with your family every night? The house is just the vehicle. The destination is the life you're trying to build because this endeavor of buying a home is very expensive and it should be a life that you want to live not just something you are tolerating.
So before you ask, 'What's the best investment?' ask yourself a better question: 'What kind of life do I want to live every single day?Because the best homes don't just build wealth—they build the life you were hoping money could buy in the first place. The funny part is - that turns out to be an attractive and valuable element of investing in a home of your own.
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Peter “Pistol Pete” Eubank
Room Real Estate
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