10/07/2023
DO YOU EVER FEEL YOU’RE IN A BAD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD?
Sometimes we get into a love-hate relationship with our neighborhood.
Let's be real: a neighborhood can be like a spouse. They both come with a mother-in-law—or an HOA—you might not be fond of. (BTW my mother-in-law is the best; love you Patty 😉)
FIRST IMPRESSIONS AREN’t EVERYTHING.
When you first drove through the area, you felt like you'd won the love lottery.
Clean streets, well-groomed lawns, and no sign of that one neighbor who revs his engine at midnight. Ah, young love!
At first, you're too starry-eyed to see the flaws.
But over time you discover your seemingly quiet street is a shortcut for the Indy 500 wannabes. Who knew?
YOUR ‘HOOD’s GOT PERSONALITY, BUT IS IT YOUR TYPE?
Wouldn't it be great if neighborhoods came with dating profiles?
“Loves long walks to the nearby dog park, has an affinity for recycling, and enjoys the occasional block party."
Alas, they don't. So, how do you find the one?
Well, you've got to date around a little.
Visit at different times and meet the neighbors.
You see, neighborhoods are like people.
Some are loud and flashy (you know who you are), and some are the strong, silent types.
Some like to party until the roosters crow, and some hit the hay after a family dinner and an episode of "Jeopardy."
WHAT ABOUT THE KIDS?
A great neighborhood doesn't just stop at you; it extends to your mini-mes.
From schools to parks, your new stomping grounds should offer something for those who stomp around the most—your kids.
Seriously, don't underestimate the power of a nearby playground or other young families that can serve as playdates or as a free babysitter when the need arises.
KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES - NOT
You're not just picking a place to shelter the family—you're picking your tribe. So, who do you want in your corner?
Do you actually ENJOY caviar breakfasts and champagne bubble baths? Or are you more of a "pancakes and a quick shower so I can catch the game" kind of person?
The vibe of your neighborhood can either feel like a warm hug or like that itchy sweater you're forced to wear every Christmas.
So choose wisely.
The bottom line:
You can change your home, repaint it, or even add an annoyingly fashionable barn door, but you can't change your neighborhood. Not without a moving truck, that is! So, make sure you're swiping right on an area that fits not just your lifestyle but your life.
Let me know in the comments: Are you in love with your neighborhood or contemplating a break-up? 😎
(My boys 👇🏼❤️)