05/31/2026
Most people hear "no" and assume the conversation is over. Years ago, one of my sales executives lost a multi-million-dollar deal. Everyone accepted the outcome and moved on. I didn't. I got on a plane, met with the Executive VP who made the decision, and shared information he hadn't previously considered. What I didn't do... I didn't ask him to admit he was wrong. I didn't ask him to change his mind. I asked him to make a new decision based on new information. And he did. He awarded us the deal! The lesson wasn't about winning the deal. The lesson was about persistence, influence, and understanding how people think. People often resist changing their minds because it feels like admitting they were wrong. But many are willing to make a new decision when presented with new facts. That's true in business. It's true in negotiations. It's true in life. And I've found something else: The attitude, confidence, and conviction you bring into a room often come back to you. Not because of magic. Not because of luck. Because people tend to respond to the same energy they're given. Never confuse a decision with destiny. Sometimes the outcome changes because you refused to accept the first answer. What decision in your life almost ended at the first "no"? đ Respond in the comments. I'd love to hear your story.