05/24/2026
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The Real Meaning Behind Memorial Day and Why We Honor It
Remember the brave soldiers on this special day.
By AnnMarie Mattila
It's true that many Americans consider Memorial Day the "unofficial" beginning of summertime. Not only does it take place during a warmer time of year, but it's a federal holiday, meaning people typically have this day off from work. But before you dive into your Memorial Day activities, it's definitely important to learn about the real meaning behind the holiday. At the forefront of it all, America uses this day to honor the brave souls who have fallen after fighting for their country.
According to the History Channel, Memorial Day was celebrated as early as the 1860s following the Civil War. But it officially became a national holiday in 1971. It always falls on the last Monday of May, so the actual date changes from year to year. And while we may call it a "celebration" as we do for many holidays, it is meant to be a more somber day to honor those who have passed. Read on for the true meaning behind Memorial Day and how to commemorate it.
What is the true meaning of Memorial Day?
Memorial Day is "the day we pay homage to all those who didn't come home," explains author Tamra Bolton. "It is a day of solemn contemplation over the cost of freedom." It is a day to pause and reflect upon the many service members who risked and ultimately lost their lives fighting on behalf of the United States.
Is Memorial Day only for fallen soldiers?
While Veteran's Day is considered a celebration of all American military veterans, living and dead, Memorial Day is designated to honor those who died in service to our country. It doesn't matter when, where, or which military conflict was involved, either. Memorial Day recognizes any fallen soldiers who were fighting for all the U.S. military branches.
What is the proper way to celebrate Memorial Day?
There are many ways you can commemorate Memorial Day. Because it is considered a day of national mourning, if you fly an American flag, it should be flown at half-staff until noon and then raised up for the remainder of the day. There is also a National Moment of Remembrance at 3 p.m. local time, where you are asked to pause for one minute of silence to remember our fallen. Many local and state organizations put on community events like parades that you can attend. Just check in with your local officials to see exactly what they have going on that day!
What is an appropriate message for Memorial Day?
You can speak volumes without saying a word by wearing the symbol of remembrance: the red poppy. Both the VFW and The American Legion have run their national poppy programs since the 1920s, and donations to their causes go to help fund veterans affairs all over the country. And it's completely acceptable to go on social media with Memorial Day quotes or patriotic quotes to express your thanks for those who served. Just remember this is a day about respect.
What do you say to a veteran on Memorial Day?
The most appropriate message on Memorial Day is saying "thanks" in any way you can to an armed services veteran. "Thank you for your service" is the most common phrase to use on Memorial Day or frankly at any time during the year. Try to avoid wishing anyone "Happy Memorial Day," though, as it is a somber occasion, not a joyous one.
How do you show respect at a memorial?
There are plenty of ways to do this! You can visit national memorials or cemeteries and place flags or flowers on the graves of the fallen. Many churches have special services, as do local chapters of the veterans associations, too. If you personally are related to a fallen veteran, connecting with your local community about highlighting their memorial at any public services could be a great way to honor them. However, if you wish for something more private, you could do the same with just your family and close friends.
