01/03/2025
What?? Real Estate isn't like what I see on TV???
January Blog for Home Buyers & Home Sellers
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Hello!
We made it past the holi-daze! Congratulations! It is such a crazy time of the year as we juggle the baking, the family events, who is doing what, or going where, on what holiday, kids out of school, the last-minute gifts, and wrapping ( oh the wrapping... I loathe wrapping!), and so much more. For some, there is the additional pressure of the weather, as not everyone loves the early sunsets, the cold, and the drizzly wet sunshine like I do. There has been a lot going on ... Life is busy, and sometimes something has to give a little even if it 'feels' like it is our sanity sometimes.
One of the first things a client says to me when they want to sell their home is, "Oh my gosh! My house is such a mess right now! Are you sure that you want/need to come over? Can we meet somewhere else?" First, yeah, I want to come over. I have a 'Seller's Guide to Selling Your Home' that talks more about this in more detail, and why it is so important, but quickly... As your Realtor, I need to see your home so I can compare it with comparable homes that are for sale, that are pending, and that have recently sold. This is how we come up with a price range that is going to take you to your next adventure. It also helps me to see if there are any visual items that might need to be repaired, or what we can do now, that might help your home better present itself on the market.
But you know, I do sometimes wonder WHY we all say this? I wonder why for some reason, with everything else going on in our lives, we also think that we are supposed to have a spotlessly clean home like we see on TV... as if our home is going to 'magically' stay clean for longer than 15 seconds. I don't know about you, but between my spouse, our teenager, our 2 dogs, and all of my cats (I have 6 of them! Crazy Cat Lady? Sign me up!) AND our oldest 2 kids, and our amazing grandbabies that are 'popping' in at any given moment, ... if I ever find a genie, my first wish will be to have a home that cleans itself! If you are coming to see my house, give me a week's notice so I can get it clean, but if you are coming to see us... you are leaving with pet fur on your clothes and a full belly. Homes get lived in. Very few homes look like they do when they are on the market. Give yourself some grace. I remind clients of this quite often.
I know that as soon as we set up the appointment to meet to look at your home, you are going to be scrambling to get your home picked up....just like I do with mine... just like the majority of sellers are doing when they have an appointment to show their homes. Sometimes, only sometimes, do I walk into a client's home and find it *chef's kiss* perfect. It does happen occasionally, and if you are one of those people... WHAT IS YOUR SECRET?? Honestly, I am pretty sure it is a superpower... like my husband's ability to walk out of Costco with ONLY the items that he went in there for. He's a monster...
When you are thinking about selling your home, I know that it is a big decision, and the Realtor that you call to assist you is honored, and grateful to have the chance to work for you. We see homes all the time, and trust me when I tell you this, your home is NOT that bad. Very few homes look like they do on TV, or how they do when they are on the market. Sometimes I get questions of why we don't take photos of the garage interiors... well, that is an easy answer... the garage is usually full of the homeowner's stuff that they took out of the home so it would show better.
As a Realtor, during the listing appointment, we will go over how showings work, and how you can get ready to show your home when there is a showing appointment. For many sellers, especially those with pets, and/or children, or who work from home, Next Day showing appointments can be a lifesaver. With next-day showings, you don't have to try to keep your home spotless every day as that is just too much pressure when some days are harder than others and you just want to come home and plop (is that a word?) down on the couch and chill. It is also Murphy's Law that your cat will take that moment to run to the carpet with their latest fur-ball attack.
In a nutshell,
BUYERS....
When you are a Buyer, and you are looking at homes to buy, here are a few things to be aware of...
**When the home is owner-occupied, they most likely can not do a short-notice appointment. Many homes will have a "next day appointments" instruction. Let's plan a day to go look at homes and I will set up an appointment.
**When we have an appointment to show a home, please know that the seller worked hard to make the home show the best it can for you. Just like you, and me, when the in-laws come over, they are scrambling to keep it clean and to prevent their 2, &/or 4-legged babies from their normal chaos. Nothing is worse for a seller than when the Realtor, with their buyers, doesn't show up. I always tell my buyer clients to drive around the homes they are interested in first. If you like what you see, let me know, and I will make an appointment to show the home. This helps prevent the drive-by "ewwwws".
**Some homes will have a floor plan attached to the listing pictures, and some won't. It depends on the listing agent and the photographer that they used. I know that it would be nice if they all had one, but many will not. If you like the drive-by, let's go see the home. Floor plans are great, but seeing the home in person is better.
**Most homes will not have a listing photo of the garage interior. It is a garage. It most likely has most of the seller's belongings in it. I know that the garage is very important for some people (*cough* usually men *cough), and if the garage is important to you, we will see it when we are at the showing appointment.
**The weather is....in a word... wet. Please wear easy on/off shoes, or be prepared to wear shoe booties when we are showing homes.
**Please remember that this beautiful home you are seeing most likely usually looks just like yours, and mine. We are like the in-laws that they cleaned up for, but the only difference is that they want us to come over and see their home. (disclaimer.... this isn't ALL in-laws. I know some people who are pretty fantastic and wonderful in-laws that I would love to have over. They are a blessing.)
**When the home is occupied, or staged for showing, we want to be respectful of the sellers and treat their home, and belongings accordingly. I have grandbabies, and my granddaughter has come with me a few times (just like her mom, uncle, and auntie did when they were little) when I am showing homes. She knows the rule.... we hold hands, we keep our hands to ourselves, and we stay together. It is always a good rule for life. Open the cabinets, check out the pantry, look in the closets, open the crawlspace access if you feel the need (DADS!)...as long as we aren't moving the seller's stuff to do so. If the seller has a bunch of stuff on the crawlspace access door, we will have it looked at during the home inspection...and no matter how cool the seller's Lego collection is... we don't touch it. (It has happened....).
SELLERS....
When you are a homeowner, and you are thinking about selling your home, a few things to remember...
**It is stressful selling your home and letting strangers walk through it. Your Realtor will do everything we can to make it as easy as possible for you. When a Realtor accesses the lockbox to enter your home, your Realtor will get a text/email confirmation of who it was that entered your home, and yes, for about how long they were there too. Some Realtors will leave a business card as a respectful gesture to let you know that they were there, but not every Realtor will. However, your Realtor knows.
**Please remove any, and all, 'sensitive' items from public view. Some of these items may be medicines. Yes, you usually keep it in the bathroom or kitchen cabinets, or counters but people will be opening those. Talk to your Realtor about a few other places that might be a better option for now. I am not going to put those on here though because that would kind of defeat the purpose. Jewelry is another item that you might consider not leaving out. Most people are wonderful and are walking through your home with a Realtor who they know and trust, and who they have a relationship with, but this isn't always the case. Another thing that would be good to be sure that is put away is important papers with sensitive information. I am always surprised about what homeowners leave lying around on the counter, table, or in their office. We are not trying to look, but sometimes curiosity gets the better of people, and they will look at it even if they are not touching it. Valuable items, equipment, and/or sharp items that could present a danger should be put away. Some other items of a sensitive and private nature (I'll leave it up to your imagination) should also be put away. These items always provoke a few jokes and laughs, but it can be awkward, to say the least.
**If there is an item, or maybe a few plants, that you want to take with you to your next home, please let your Realtor know so that we can make certain those items are excluded from the listing. Some items that contractually stay are blinds, drapes, curtain rods, curtains, built-in shelves, stove/oven, built-in microwave, built-in dishwasher (if it is on wheels and mobile, it is excluded), window/door screens, awnings, wood stoves or inserts, attached lights/lighting, attached heating/cooling fixtures (not window units)... basically anything attached to the home.
**Talk with your Realtor regarding your showing ability. Some people are good with only a few hours' notice, but not everyone will be, and that is ok! You aren't a doctor (ok, you might be), but in this case, you don't have to be on call at all hours. Most people will want to see the home on the weekends, or after work hours, but it is ok to put a timeline on your showings. For example, your kids need to be in bed at 8pm...so no showings after 7pm so you can get them there. My kids always needed time to settle down before bed, and my grandbabies do too. Maybe your showings are limited to when you can run home to get your pets (and make sure there aren't any surprises they left for you). It is ok! Buyers are people too, and if they like your home, they will make an appointment. You are not selling your home to EVERY person, just that one person who walks through your door and falls in love.
**Professional photos! Most Realtors have professional photographers who they can call to take photos of your home. It really does make a difference. Few things irritate me as much as looking at terrible home listing photos.
**I have pets. One of my dogs is old, and he has an old dog smell. If you have, or ever had, an old dog, you know what I mean. If you have pets, your home might have smells that you are nose blind to. Amazon (sweet, sweet Amazon) has ozone machines and air purifiers for a very reasonable price. I always have a few in my car, and in my garage ... just in case a seller needs one. As a side note... I know it sucks in this weather, but please clean up puppy 'bombs' in the yard as some people forget to watch where they are walking because they are excited about your home. That is not what you want them to remember about your home when they get back in their car.
**Remember that your home (right now) looks like the majority of our homes on a regular basis... there is stuff on the counter, the couches are all messed up, toys (for either the 2-legged, or 4-legged babies) are on the floor, the bathrooms need to be cleaned, there are probably dishes in the sink, and clothes that need washed, or folded... or put away. We are busy, and there is always something that needs doing. Give yourself grace, and don't be afraid to ask for help. Selling can be stressful, and we will do all we can to assist you with your home adventure, and to help make your home shine like a diamond. Some things we can't help with, like the cat running to the carpet, rug, or bed... Every Single Time... but many things we can assist with, or know someone who can. There aren't many things that are so big that we can't help you find a solution, and never, ever, EVER compare what your home looks like to listing photos of the homes for sale on the internet because those homes didn't look like that either before they went on the market.
Happy New Year from my family to yours! Here is to 2025... and no one better jinx it. Let's all walk softly, and maybe it won't notice we are here.
As always, "may the odds ever be in your favor" I am here for any questions, and always available to help you with your next Home Adventure... Whether you are buying, or selling... I got you Boo! I appreciate you, and your referrals more than words can express. Thank you!
Have a great day, and I will talk to you soon,
Tracie DeMars
Real Estate broker
Re/Max - Van Mall
360/ 903-3504 cell
www.traciedemars.com
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