11/18/2025
David Leo Hays, Chief Master Sergeant, United States Air Force (Ret.), dedicated 30 years of honorable service to his country. His career took him across the globe with assignments in Greenland, Germany, Louisiana, Southeast Asia, Tucson, and Omaha. During his early years in the Air Force, David met his first wife, Shirley, and the two were married on March 25, 1965.
David discovered a lifelong passion for cooking and delighted in sharing his creations with family and friends. Many of his cherished recipes continue to be passed down through younger generations, keeping beloved family traditions alive.
After retiring from the Air Force, David and Shirley returned to Wagoner, where he worked for Wagoner County Abstract for 20 years before fully retiring. Following Shirley’s passing, David later reconnected with his high school sweetheart, Norma, and the two married on February 26, 2017.
David was a huge OU Sooners and St. Louis Cardinals fan. If either team was playing, he could always be found cheering them on—and if they were losing, everyone knew to tread lightly. The first OU football game that David got to watch from heaven was them beating Alabama in a nail-biter.
David and Shirley also enjoyed collecting Department 56 Christmas Village pieces, spending countless hours attending events and hosting gatherings with the Oklahoma Department 56 Club.
He was preceded in death by parents John and Ethel Hays; wives Shirley Hays and Norma Hays; sister Wanda L. Posey; and nephew John Lowell Hays.
He is survived by his son John; stepchildren Teri, Ralph, Kathy, and Mark; numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren; siblings Dennis, Betty, Laverne, Mike, Arlene, Frank, and Ron; as well as many nieces and nephews.
Family will greet guest on Monday, November 17, 2025 from 5:00 P.M. to 7:00 P.M. at Shipman Funeral Home in Wagoner, Oklahoma.
Service will be at 10:30 A.M. on Tuesday, November 18, 2025 at Shipman Funeral Home Chapel in Wagoner, Oklahoma. Burial will follow at Fort Gibson National Cemetery.