08/14/2026
What happened before is history. History can’t be changed. Así son las cosas. A year ago today was the start of our future. A missed connection in Madrid by one minute (literally) meant spending the day in the airport held captive to rest, and a late arrival to a home we’d seen only in photos and video, but had never walked into before. Home was/is upstairs from a night club with a drag act (a lil Bird Cagey), across from the city’s best mercado, and 10 mins from school. That night, we visited our rooftop to a breathtaking view of our neighborhood from above. The next day, our kiddo made her first friend in this new place, and we with the parents of the new friend. And, in the wake of months of keeping a furious pace - research, exploration, calculation, ex*****on - the future gently began to heal us with Valencia’s warm embrace.