03/18/2025
Catching up
Dad wore a lot of hats as an investor, and one of them was running a sign company. This company made metal signs that went on buildings.
Nick, Mindy, and I were home from college one Thanksgiving. We were eager to connect with friends, connect with my mother’s always filled refrigerator, tv shows, and each other, the usual holiday pastimes. But at dinner, Dad mentioned that the company had been busy, and they’d fallen behind on their orders. Without question and without consulting each other, we all offered to come in and help.
Dad looked up from his dinner, and his face changed from concern to consideration. He started to smile and said, yes, tomorrow morning, 7:00.
The next morning, we drove over to the company, the three of us and Dad, went in the front door of the office, and Dad walked us into the back.
It was noisy and bright. A steady murmur of machinery. It was dusty and the cement floor was hard. Dad stood by the office door until a foreman came over. He told them: These are my kids, home from college. I told them you had too much work and have fallen behind. They offered to help. Can you show them what has to be done?
He stared at my Dad and the three of us for a minute as if he could not believe it.
Dad shrugged and went into the office. And there we were.
He took us around and set us some tasks. Mine was to trace the outline of what the metal cutter had to follow. I had blueprints and sheets of metal and blue inky pencils and a wide table to stand at. Nick and Mindy went elsewhere. I was told the person I was replacing was out sick. I was showed, by another person, what to do and set about trying to make a dent in the big pile of metal with the blueprints.
I can’t remember lunch – I think Dad brought us something, and I gobbled something down and kept going.
At one point, a person wandered over and asked me what I was doing. I told him. Dad had said they’d fallen behind and needed some help. Another person wandered over and, laughing, said I was probably getting paid pretty well. I said no, I wasn’t getting paid. My Dad said they needed some help so I was helping. He walked away, shaking his head.
A whistle blew, indicating the end of the work day. Nick and Mindy, their tasks concluded, came over to where I worked and began to help out. The foreman came over and told us it was quitting time. We looked up from our work. I gestured toward the pile I’d been working on and said, “Yes, it might be quitting time, but if we can get all of this done, you’ll be caught up. We can stay, right?” He said, “sure” and walked away.
When we finished, maybe an hour or so later, we hunted up Dad and he drove us home. We were tired. My eyes burned, my throat felt scratchy, it was very nice to sit in the car for a while. We didn’t talk much. Dad said they could not believe his college kids came to help them, and not just help them, but we were willing to stay past quitting time to get the job done. He was very happy. It marked him as more than just a boss, and the three of us as more than just college kids. The workers were impressed. He was grateful.
Nick, Mindy, and I knew it was the right thing to do. We were a little amused by their reaction when we refused to leave at quitting time, that we were more interested in completing the job than the hours we worked.
They say the foot of the farmer is the best fertilizer and I think that saying applies here.
Like a farmer who ventures into his field to see what the soil looks and smells like, to see how the corn is growing instead of staying the barn figuring out how much he’ll make, I am not afraid to get real when I go to sell a house.
If I tell a client they need to declutter, chances are I have some empty boxes in the back of the car to bring in so the work can start. If a client needs some work done and aren’t in town, I am there to coordinate and supervise it. I’ve been known to shovel walks and driveways for showings, to check on water heaters and drain radiators of steam.
You’d be surprised by the difference it makes.
If you want a realtor who makes a difference, call me.