02/25/2024
Life
What is your purpose in life
Why are you here
What Is the whole reason for your life
I wonder if my journey in life has changed me or the purpose for me to be here
I wonder if I have had a profound effect on someone or have I influenced someone else that will make a difference
What exactly does making a difference mean.
To whom or how many must you make a difference to before it becomes important
I have as I guess many of us, have lived my life, as I should have, to make myself happy
It’s that life long question of which came first, the chicken or the egg ?
Well when you’re born, you struggle to survive with the help of a person that cares for you while your helpless
The you start to grow, explor and learn as you become you
But during that growth, whether you know it or realize it or not, your existence is about making yourself happy
You develop relationships to make you happy
You explor food, entertainment, eduction, music and art and relationships etc etc to make yourself happy
Does that mean we are a selfish peoples
Over the last few years I have had days of just going through the motions and other days of being on top of the world
I do now know for the first time ever in my life know what it truely means to live for someone else
So my goal is still to make myself happy, but I make myself happiest when I am able to make a difference in a positive way for someone I love and others
Doesn’t even have to be someone I know and love but it can be a complete stranger
I find myself going through the day trying to make people I don’t know smile or give some happiness
It’s as simple as being online at the grocery store and saying to the cashier, you really have very pretty eyes.
Does that make me a phony, absolutely not, because I absolutely mean it
I look at people and I just find something good and positive to say to them
My grandparents tried to teach me that you should always try to make someone else’s day a bit better.
In this day and age, you never know how people take things so I have developed a way of getting across what I want to say, without getting in trouble
For example… if it happen to be a female and I want to give a compliment I simply say, “ excuse me, I’m not making a pass at you, I’m very happily married, but I just wanted to tell you that you are very pretty.
Wow, I discovered that giving a compliment really really can make someone’s day, especially if they know you have absolutely no ulterior motive.
When you see how you made a perfect stranger happy, it makes you happy to.
Anywho… I guess the whole purpose of this little memo was to get you to think of just how easy it would be for you to make someone else’s day special.
I know I’m on a mission because God has been so good to me by saving my Marion’s, Warrior Goddess Life, but if you think about it for a minute…. You too, that’s right, everyone of you reading this have something to be extremely grateful for in life….. so go pay it forward and give some happiness to a stranger today.
Please feel free to share this with others and consider signing up to become a organ donor.
Love
Ronald Steiger
